How to Make Him Fall in Love And How to Make Him Stay in Love

Is it possible to make him fall in love? Why do men fall in love easily, but they can't seem to stick around longer than a few weeks? Are they really just jerks who can't commit? It's hardly that simple -- if you want to make him fall in love, simply remember that beauty is only skin deep.

Let's talk about physical attraction for a minute. Physical attraction is a great draw for men, since they naturally love looking at young, sexy, beautiful women. But is physical attraction enough to make him fall head-over-heels for you?

Physical attraction is all well and good, since it's often enough to break the ice with a guy you just met. But if you don't have the personality to match it, men will soon realize that you're only good-looking, but nothing more. It's never enough to make him commit to you.

But even if he does commit to you because of your looks, chances are the relationship won't last long. If all he's after is your body, then it's only a matter of time before he gets bored and starts looking for fun elsewhere, and you'll be left bitterly criticizing the "ugly" women he hooks up with next.

Nope, physical attraction is never enough. You'll need to trigger a chemistry -- a deeper, more emotional attraction -- in order to really make him fall in love. This emotional attraction is precisely what makes men want to commit for the long-term.

The easiest way to trigger this emotional attraction is to be different from all the other women. That means you'll need to be independent (able to be happy even without him), easygoing (being an optimist and having a sense of humor), and smart (having more things to talk about than just the weather and how lousy your day was).

If you take things in stride and let him discover interesting new things about you every time you meet, then he'll definitely be thinking of you whenever you're apart. Before you know it, he'll be calling you up and asking you out again.

To make him fall in love, remember that you'll have to appeal to his mind as well as his eyes.