How Women Make Men Fall in Love - steps 1 and 2

How do so many women succeed in making a man fall in love with them? Do they have some secret power? What are they doing that you're not doing? Do you think it's possible for you to make him fall in love?


Some women don't even have to think about it; attracting a man comes naturally to them. But for some, perhaps you, there are two basic rules you need to keep in mind every time you meet a man who interests you.

The first thing you need to remember is that you want to attract him, not repulse him. But laying it on too thick can, indeed, repulse him. Don't come on too strong. If you flirt, keep it subtle. If you take a step towards him, make it a small, tentative step that invites him to take a larger step towards you. If you start to feel a strong emotional bond, keep it to yourself and wait for him to come around and realize on his own the love he has for you.

Making too many first steps, pushing forward too aggressively and trying to take control of every aspect of the budding relationship is a surefire way of sending him running. Show him you're really into building the relationship by being fun to be around.

The second thing you should do is work at building a strong emotional bond with him. You don't want to force him to display false emotions and you can't get him to simply manufacture emotions he doesn't feel. Show him that you can be the woman he needs in various aspects of his life. When he wants to party after a long, hard week at work, be the fun girl he has a good time with. And when he's upset about a lost contract or broken deal, be an attentive ear and let him vent his frustration.

While men need to feel strong and capable of taking care of you on one level, they also need your strength and your loving arms in moments of self-doubt, of unsuccessful ventures or when they just feel low.

If you want to make him love you, show him you can be there for him in the good times and bad. This doesn't mean you should have to get on your knees and do absolutely everything for him all the time, but being there for him emotionally will build a strong bond of trust, security and, ultimately, love.
Tina L.Jones