Find the Man of your Dreams How to Find Mr Right

1. Step Outside Your Routine - If you stick to a routine, it's obviously not working for you! So, the best way is to change your daily life thus diversifying your opportunities in a way you had never thought of before. Remember what kind of man you want to find, you must be brave and join whatever activity or behaviour your Mr Right may be doing. So, if you seek an intellectual go to book clubs or reading groups or relevant meet-up groups (make sure there are many men signed up), for example; if you seek a sporty guy join a tennis club (even if you can't play!) or a golf club. The gym is always a great way to find guys, especially if it's a big gym. Absolutely go at different hours, so you can see what type of people attend at different times in the day. If at 4pm you never see anybody interesting, go at 8am instead, or on weekends. Try different time slots!

2. Become approachable. This means creating a sense of approachability (which has nothing to do with being easy, or slutty, and so on) so that when the right guy comes along he won't be put off by your defensive walls or embarrassed behaviour. So, practice makes perfect. When a guy speaks to you, smile back, be polite (you don't have to become friends but just learn to be approachable without being easy). You don't have to give him your number if you are not interested, but just be friendly, that's all. When the right guy comes along, you'll have practiced the art of approachability and you won't 'mess it up'!

3. Become brave. It may be hard at first, especially if you have low self-esteem, but conquer shyness and embarrassment by practicing approachability. Also, don't hesitate to smile first at a guy if you really like him. You don't have to make it too obvious but let him know that you may be interested. That way he'll still enjoy chasing you and conquering you but you will have opened the door for him to do so. Venture out. Approach the guy of your dreams with one excuse of the other. He may be hesitating for a million reasons. Never fear rejection. Rejection is not rejection, it's mere feedback on your strategy. And there is always a way to get to his heart, so don't live in fear of making mistakes!

By : Jules Monty