Ways to Make Him Love You More

How do I make my boyfriend crazy about me? That's a question we all wonder about when we find ourselves falling helplessly in love with the man we're dating. Our dream is for him to feel the same way we do. Most of us leave that to fate or chance but that's not really the best approach. Getting a man to love you more has a lot to do with the woman you are and how you interact with him. By treating him in a very specific way you can up his desire for you in no time at all.

When you're asking the question, how do I make my boyfriend crazy about me, you have to consider the dynamic between the two of you now. As women, we're prone to being the caretaker in all of our relationships. We go out of our way to make the lives of the people we love easier. This can translate into you doing things like cooking every night for your boyfriend, doing his laundry and just catering to all his needs. This seems like a wonderful way to get him to love you, but it's not. This may actually turn him off completely. When a woman gives too much of herself too soon in a relationship it makes her look desperate and pathetic. He's going to instantly wonder if this is how you act in all your relationships. Pull back a little and stop trying to do everything you can to make him love you. Sometimes not trying so hard is actually the better way.

When you love a man you want to see him as much as you can. That just makes sense, but it's not always what you should be doing if you want him to feel the same way about you. Men actually fall in love with women when they miss them. It's those moments in between dates when he longs to see your face or hear your voice that matter. If you are always chomping at the bit to see him, it's actually going to take him longer to feel closer to you. Keep your schedule full with your own interests and fit in dates with him a couple of times a week as opposed to every day. He'll prefer this.

The same can be said for how much you call him. Naturally when you're crazy about a man you want to talk to him. However, if you're doing all the pursuing, he's going to pull back and lose interest quickly. A good rule of thumb to follow is to let him do the calling. He may not call as often as you wish he would, but that's okay. Let him set the pace for the growth of the relationship. He'll feel less pressured and more open to falling in love with you.

By : Gillian Reynolds